The more I learn the more I don't know

I've only recently become an activist and I still have a lot to learn.  The more I learn the more I realize that there is so much I don't know.  There is a lot of ignorance in the world and even more people fighting for causes they don't take the time to learn about from all angles, used skewed research and statistics and get down right nasty and insulting to those who don't agree with them.  All this only makes me want to learn more, work harder and be smarter and classier than those who are attacking my industry and blaming it and the people in it for some of society's problems.  It's time for me to start getting more involved.

I came across, thanks to the wonderful people on Twitter, an article that I found interesting.  Porn sites often gets blamed for viruses, malware, etc.  Personally, I have never got a virus or anything from a porn site however, I am aware of the fact that it does happen.  This article explains how and why religious sites put your computer at a greater risk than porn sites.  Check it out:

http://www.dailytech.com/article.aspx?newsid=24613


Human Trafficking is one of the big political issues today and for good reason.  No one, anywhere, for any reason should do ANYTHING against their will.  There are so many people being trafficked right now that the thought of it makes me sick to my stomach.  I'm trying my best to get involved where I can and do what I can to help this issue.  I do what I do out of my own free will however, no one should be forced into it. 

http://paper.li/gunnarsimonsen/trafficking


I'm only one person however, I feel I have a lot to offer.  Please, let's all get involved and protect innocent victims from the scum of society known as pimps.

It's been a busy time!!!

     I just got back from shooting 2 Naughty America scenes in California and I was out of practice!!!  It's been a little over a year since I shot last.  I had to take some time off due to a family member's illness.  I'm very fortunate that Yesenia and her crew were the ones shooting me, they are nothing less than awesome.  There are a lot of wonderful directors in the business however, Yesenia takes the cake.  I love her!!!  Ben, the still photographer has been one of the key people in helping me pose, he has commented on how much I've improved and has said "I feel like I raised you".  In a way, he did have a hand in raising Becca Blossoms :)  Matty is always cute and somehow never ages.  He is so relaxed and has such a great attitude.  Rolly is Yesenia's brother is one of the hardest working people I've ever met.  He treats me like a lady should be treated.

     My first scene was will Bill Bailey.  This guy is in his 30's but is so hot he actually played my son.  I loved his hit of a southern accent and he was so sweet and polite.  My second scene was with Alan Stafford who is super ripped.  This was the second time I worked with Alan and both times he has been so sweet and very good at what he does.  Needless to say, it was a good day on the job :)

     I was only in town for 3 days, it was a super quick trip.  I stayed with my good friend, Powder.  He's a very intelligent, knowledgeable sweet person.  It was nice to just hand out with him the day I got in and after my shoots.  On the third day I didn't see him because I had to leave :(  I feel a little sad because I didn't get to see my good friend Lynn Lemay, this was the first time in a very long time that I came out and didn't see her.  I love that girl!!

     The morning I woke up to get ready to go to LAX, I found an article on Twitter written by a member of SWOP-NYC.  I found it informative, intelligently written and very  straight forward.  Here is the article, I have shared it with lots of people, including the members of SWOP-Wisconsin.

http://www.thedailytransmission.com/2012/04/27/how-not-to-end-sex-trafficking-my-day-testifying-at-the-new-york-city-council/

     Human Trafficking is a horrible crime and everyone needs to be aware of it.  I'm working on getting involved in some volunteer groups to offer what I can to help those who are victims and bring down the bad guys.  It's amazing that in this day and age we still have slavery in the United States. 

     As far as current events with SWOP-Wisconsin, we're planning on visiting Madison.  Madison is about an hour and a half from Madison and there are a lot of sex workers in that area.  This isn't surprising with it being a college town and all.  We're going to have a public event; "Hang out With SWOP" where we hang out in a bar and chat with whoever wants to get to know us.  After that, we're doing another screening workshop.  I'm looking forward to this workshop.  The first one we did in Milwaukee was ok however, it was also a learning experience.  Everything I do lately has been learning experiences and I absolutely love it.  I'm sometimes not sure of myself and get anxious over new people and situations however, things always seem to work out in the end.

Hugs,

Becca



    

Current Events

I don't endorse any candidate and I don't like to get into too many political or religious debates however, I do have my opinions and lately  some of the current events and issues have really got me to thinking.  The first thing that has got my wheels spinning the the whole birth control issue.  First of all, the choice to use birth control or not is a very personal one and not something the government should have a say in.  I honestly think this issue is taking focus on the big issues that are harming almost every American.  With things like the economy, national debt and health care, who really has the time and energy to put into a person's decision to use birth control or not?  This is distracting from the important issues and really is no one's business except for the person choosing to us it.  I personally use birth control as a precaution. I don't want to end up pregnant from adult industry activities.  I will decide if, what kind and how long I will use birth control.  From an adult industry view point, it's necessary for me to use it.  From a woman's view point, it's my choice, my body and my life.  I have the right to protect myself while having sex.  I don't want to have any more children.  With all of our economic problem in this country, why would any politician, or anyone with any intelligence at all, even consider telling anyone they can't use birth control.  A responsible woman will take the approiate actions to protect herself from getting pregnant when she is unwilling or unable to raise a child.  Let's not forget the men here.  Not all men want to have children or more children and are entitled to protection themselves. 

Sex is a biological and natural thing all humans are programed to do.  We have the right to enjoy it in any way, shape or form that does not harm anyone else.  Just like football players wear their helmets and padding, we all have the right to protect ourselves when playing.

As a mother of a preteen and a teenager, I'm very open and honest with my kids when it comes to sex.  Sex can be very pleasurable, emotional and enjoyable.  However, just like sports, there can be negative consequences and one of them could be an unwanted pregnancy.  I not only have the right to use birth control myself, I have the right to allow my children to use it when and if they become sexually active.  My children and I have had conversations about birth control and protecting themselves.  Sex education is vital to every human being on this planet and birth control is a huge part of it.


We all heard the debates of gay marriage.  Recently Kirk Camron has made comments on gay marriage.  Here are a few links:

http://www.contactmusic.com/news/kirk-cameron-mocked-by-nikki-sixx-over-gay-marriage-remarks_1300938

http://www.contactmusic.com/news/kirk-cameron-gay-marriage-is-destructive-to-civilization_1300890

If Kirk, or anyone for that matter, doesn't want to be in a gay marriage, they don't have to.  To say gays are in any way destructive to so many foundations of our civilization is down right ignorant.  Look at our divorce rate between heterosexual couples, it's not a good track record.  I understand that some people have their own definition of marriage and that's fine, don't cram it down anyon else's throat.  Live your life according to your own beliefs, morals, standards and desires and let others live theirs.  The definition that Christians like to push on people isn't the one and only.  I believe in God and have a strong relation with him as I know him however, I don't believe everything in the Bible so using that as a basis to argue gay marriage is useless to me. 

Gays have been around as long as civilization has been.  It's unfortunate that they were not always accepted or live in a society that supported them.  They deserve equal rights and if they want to get married, so be it.  If they want to raise children, so be it.  There are so many other issues that are destructive to so many foundations of our civilization, if Kirk Camron wants to protect the foundations of our civilization he needs to start with his own ignorant mouth.  If he is going to claim to be a Christian and live by the bible, he needs to love and accept others, do I need to quote the many Bible verses here that teaches him that?


Speaking of celebrities, Lindsay Lohan has been strongly criticized for her appearance on Saturday Night Live.  The media needs to take a chill pill here.  The girl has struggled with addictions in the public eye.  Over coming addictions and getting your life back on track is hard enough for the majority of us, doing it in the public eye with the main stream media blowing up your mistakes and the negative about your life and not giving equal attention to your accomplishments and successes would be down right impossible for most of us.  She's not perfect however, none of us are.  As an entertainer I can honestly say that I have had times when my performance wasn't at it's best.  Just like everyone else, entertainers have their good days and bad days.  At least the girl is moving forward.  She has got to be courageous to continue to do what she does.  She is more talented than most of those who are ciritzing her.  I support and admire her fully, how many of us would still be alive after all she has gone through?


Ok, my rant is over :)  Now it's time to work on my visit to the O'Hare are of my favorite city, Chicago!!!  I'm really looking forward to having fun there.  It's only 90 minutes from my house and I'm out that way weekly but the excitement, cultural richness and beauty of the city never gets old to me.

No Vegas for me :(

Ok, I didn't make it to Vegas after getting all ready and telling everyone I was going to be there.  My daughter got sick.  Family first!!   I'm hoping to make it to Vegas sometime during 2012.  Vegas isn't going anywhere :)

Now that I'm staying home, I'm planning on doing my cam show at http://beccablossoms.cammodels.com/, working on SWOP-Wisconsin, spending time with my family, working on my website and planning future trips.  In February, I plan on getting to Boston and St. Louis and Chicago providing the Midwest weather allows me to travel.  right now it's 10 degrees outside and we're expecting a snow storm tomorrow.  I just might stay home all warm and cozy and make some home made soup.  I make awesome potato soup.  My kids are hoping for a snow day so they don't have to go to school.

Speaking of kids, my oldest got his driver's license.  As much as I'm proud of him, I'm scared to death. He's a good driver however, he is a 16 year old boy that gets all stupid and suddenly becomes a bad ass when he's around other 16  year old boys.  He attempted to drive after our first blizzard and put his car in a ditch s houses down from out house.  I try to look at the positive side of things and the positive side of this is that we got to meet our neighbors.  We've only been there since November, now they know I have a crazy 16 year old boy :)

Good Stuff...

Now that the holidays are over, it's time to get back to business :)  I hired a webmaster to redo my website.  I want to offer more to my fans and give them lots to enjoy :)  Of course I'm open to any suggestions :)  Please be patient, I won't suck for much longer.

I'm attending the AVNs this year, this is a first for me.  I'm really looking forward to meeting lots of people in my industry and fans.  I'm arriving a little early to have some fun.  I can't possibly go to Vegas and not leave time for fun!!  I still have to find a nice dress and some other outfits.  I can't wait!!

I put off dancing at a club in Milwaukee until after the holidays, I'll post when I start.  I'll be a regular club girl, not a feature.  I'm planning on working Mondays during the day and early evening.  I don't think I can handle working until 2 or 3 am, at least not during the school year.  We'll see what summer brings.  I really want to focus on my fans this year and get out and meet them as much as possible.  Dancing is just one way I thought might work.

I'm trying to get on my web cam more often as another way to interact with my wonderful fans.  There's a link to it on my website, www.beccablossoms.com.  I have some new toys and sexy outfits, join me for some sexy fun!!

SWOP-Wisconsin is moving along but much slower than I anticipated.  We're still working on getting sex workers in Wisconsin comfortable with us and organizing.  I know we can do great things and we will!!

Happy New Year!!!

2011 was a tough year for me, it was full of surprises and personal and professional challenges.  I lived through it and I feel I'm going into 2011 a stronger, wiser, better person.  I'm looking forward to 2011, there's a lot to look forward to :)

Check it out!!

http://www.lifeinthepornlane.com/wp/buxom-becca-blossoms-to-sign-at-exxxotica-new-jersey/