Happy New Year!!!

2011 was a tough year for me, it was full of surprises and personal and professional challenges.  I lived through it and I feel I'm going into 2011 a stronger, wiser, better person.  I'm looking forward to 2011, there's a lot to look forward to :)

Check it out!!

http://www.lifeinthepornlane.com/wp/buxom-becca-blossoms-to-sign-at-exxxotica-new-jersey/

Finally in New Jersey!!

After a long but very nice road trip, I'm in Edison, NJ for Exxxotica.  This s my second Exxxotica show, the first was home in Chicago.  I had a great time thee and I'm sure I'll have a great time here also.  I'm looking forward to meeting my fans and people in my industry.  I have a new banner to show off and some of my best DVDs, some from Naughty America, Wildlife, Girlfriends Films and a few others :)  I have some awesome pictures, they vary from classic Becca pictures to some from my best shoots. 

If your in Edison, stop by the Galaxy Publicity booth and say  hello!!

I'm looking forward to visiting the SWOP booth and meeting the members from New York.  I know they will have some words of wisdom that will help me make SWOP-Wisconsin better.  I'm still figuring out how to be a good director, make things happen and be a good activist.  I know it will all come together, I just need to keep an open mind, open ears and put into action what I learn :)

We did it!!!

We had our first SWOP meeting and the turn out was better than I had expected.  We had Serpent from SWOP-Chicago come and help guide us and answer our questions and tech about having our own SWOP chapter.  Caludine, who runs the Bad Date List in Milwaukee and who works with youth in the sex industry came to share her knowledge.  We had a few exotic dancers, a burlesque dancer and escorts who all will be key in keeping SWOP going and who were eager to help when they could.  We had another community group to learn about SWOP and become an ally with us. A Broader Vocabulary was there, their a feminist bookstore and wonderful supporters of SWOP.

We have a lot of work to do and a lot to learn.  With everyone being involved and our the support we have, I'm confident we will do great things with SWOP-Wisconsin.

When I came home that night, I felt like I just brought home a new baby. 

SWOP this week!!!

Our first SWOP meeting is this week, on September 15!!!  If there are any sex workers out there that would like to come and check it out, e mail me at becca@beccablossoms.com and I'll give you all the info.  I'm super excited about this finally coming together.  This could really benefit the sex workers and general community in Milwaukee.  I'm really hoping for a great turn out.

I HAVE to recommend a book to ANYONE who will listen to me.  It's called "If you have to cry, go outside", it's a very inspirational and real book.  The author, Kelly Cutrone is a very real, honest straight forward person.  This is hard to find in people and when I do find it in someone, I'm drawn to them.  Speaking of people I'm drawn to, I have been reading about the controversy that surrounds Chaz Bono being on Dancing With the Stars.  Its appalling that there are ignorant people out there threatening  to boycott the show over him being on it.  Really????  What year is this???  As far as I'm concerned, he has bigger balls than anyone who boycotts that show.  Chaz had the balls to become his true, authentic self in the public eyes.  Chaz is an inspiration to me.  I don't know him as a person however, I will start watching Dancing With the Stars just to support him for be as courageous and inspirational as he is to me :)

Slutwalk was a huge success!!!

It was a wet, rainy day and at first I was worried Slutwak would be rained out.  I was underestimating the dedication of the people of Milwaukee to our cause.  When I was the long line of people marching to Humbolt park, I was excited, surprised and felt tears in my eyes.  We did it!!!  The signs, chants and excitement that came from the crowd was overwhelming for me.

Our table filled up with people that wanted to buy our merchandise, learn more about Slutwalk and talk with us about our cause.  Our speakers were incredible.  Survivors of sexual abuse came out, told their stories and shared how they got their bodies, femininity and power  back.  I was truly inspired by these people.  One girl used belly dancing, another used her daughter's story and another used humor, and others used other ways. 

When I got up there to speak, I felt nervous however, I felt the love and support from everyone there.  A new passion is beginning to grow in me.  I can use my status as an adult entertainer, my time, my efforts and my smarts to continue to make a difference.  My next step is to get our first SWOP meeting scheduled by next week.  I am also planning on working closely with other groups in my community.  We all need to stick together and fight for the changes that need to be made.

Thank you to everyone who attended, it was truly an honor to be there.  You will see me at other events, everywhere I can be, to help make changes for the better.

It feels good to use my success to help others and I plan on using it to the fullest extent.

Thank you everyone for  great event and for allowing me to be a part of it!!!

Slutwalk!!!!

I just got home from the last Slutwalk volunteers meeting and I'm super excited.  This event is going to be awesome.  I came in at the tail end of putting it all together and man am I impressed with what these people have done to put it together.  I'm honored to be a part of this and to have the privilege of speaking.  There are going to be other speakers there, the Brew City Bruisers, Burlesque dancers and lots of other stuff!! 

Slutwalk is trying to stop victim blaming when it comes to rape.  It doesn't matter what a person is wearing, what the do for a living or how much they had to drink, it is NEVER the victim's fault when their raped.  I love the industry I'm in however, I hate the fact that there are people in our world that rape and I have even more when victims get blamed. 

I'm donating some of my DVDs, every dollar that comes from their sale will go directly to Slutwalk.  I'll even sign them for you :)

I'm really looking forward to seeing everyone there!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hfg-kH3i6QM

My fans are awesome!!

I have to say, I have some of the best fans.  I had a few of you guys send me some pics of us, thank you so much!!  I love when I get the opportunity to get out meet you all :)  There are never enough opportunities to say thank you. 


I have been asked to speak at Slutwalk in Milwaukee, I can't tell you what an honor this is.  Anytime I can support keeping people safe, I'm all for it.   If you're in the area on August 13, 2011, stop by and support our cause and let's keep everyone safe from rape!!  Here is the link, you can find all the info you need.

http://www.slutwalkmilwaukee.org/

In addition to Slutwalk, I finally got things moving to get a SWOP chapter in Milwaukee, I've hooked with some awesome people that have helped me to get things moving.  I know this will greatly benefit all sex workers in Milwaukee.  Check it out:

http://www.swopusa.org/

Thank you to all my fans that came out to see me at Exxxotica in Chicago.  I had a great time, met lots of wonder people and did a little networking.  This was my first big show.  I think I'm going to have to do more of them :)  I was signing with Galaxy Publicity, James Baratlet was kind enough to allow me to be at his booth.  To make things even better, I was right next to my friend, the legendary Lynn LeMay.  We had some down time to hang out with Chong and Disco Rick from Psychobabble TV. 

One of my favorite things was meeting the people from SWOP.  I've been trying soooooo hard to get a SWOP chapter going in Milwaukee and haven't had a lot of luck.  Now I feel like I can actually start moving on this. Theres so much good that can come out of this and so many people that can benefit.

OMG, I think I have hit the status of the ultimate soccer mom.  I bought a minivan today.  It's a really nice one.  I went to the car dealer with every intention of buying a sports car.  I don't know how the heck I ended up with a minivan but I think Chong had something to do with it. 

Hey Everyne!!!
I've been pretty busy lately and with all good stuff.  The kids are out of school so I've been spending a lot of time with them.  We spent one of our many summer days at Six Flags Great America in Gurnee, IL.  We all have seasons passes and we will be using them to the full extent this summer :)  I love to go on all the rides, I havn't met one that I won't go on...yet.  My daughter is getting back into gymnastics.  Gymnsatics is her passion, its where her heart is.  She's been out for a few years.  She's working really hard and has alread been invited to join the team to compete agian.  She did great a few years ago in competition.  I know that with her heart and head in this like it is, she's going to be great.

I'm experiencing a 16 year old boy, he's my firs 16 year old.  He's and honor roll student, stays out of trouble, has nice friends and a great girlfriend.  He has a summer job and is saving money for a car.  Now if I can only get some common sense in his head he wll be in great shape.  The reasoning skills of 16 year old boys are nonexient.  He's really good at giving me dumb, blank stairs when I call him.  I think it's a requirement of the teenagers to give parents the'look' before they respond to anything we do and say.  I find it amusing and confusing.  How can such a smart, talent, goal oriented kids be so goofy?  He does make me laugh a lot.

On June 25, I had the pleasure of seeing Motley Crue in concert at the Bradley center in Milwaukee.  They are my all time favorite band and I sooooo wanted to fuck Vince :)  The New York Dolls opened for them.  The band themselves were great.  The singer was obviously a drug addict.  He looked sickly and thing.  He even asked about  Colombian coke and pills in Milwaukee.  No bueno.  Poison was the next band ad they did great, just as I expected  Their tight as a band and very interactive with their fans.  I respect that.  Ok, I wouldn't mind fuckin Brett.  I can always dream, can't I?  When Motley Crue finally got on, they started with a ton of in your face energy.  This was the best Motley Crue show I've ever been to.  Besides the fact that they rocked,  was there with my very good friend, Jen.  She's super cute, super awesome and knows how to have fun.

I'm gearing up for Exxxotica in Chicago.  I'm going to be signing with Galaxy.  My good friend and mentor Lynn LeMay will be there also along with some other great girls.  I'm really looking forward to networking and meeting my fans.  Come on by our booth and say hello.  Lynn and I will both be offering private appointments for the gentlemen that would like some one on one time with us.  E Mail me if your interested at becca@beccablossoms.com for info, Lynn's contact info or any questions.  This is going to be a great few days.  I'll love to see everyone out there.

As for tomorrow, I'm interviewing the incredible Jessee Janes in her hotel room with Psychobabble TV.  I love this girl.  She's always friendly and sweet.  She's easy to interview and lets face it, she's super hot.  I will be doing a little basking in reflective glory, LOL

Talk about humbling...

I just got in from visiting family in Smithville, MS. Although I have been going down there all my life to visit family, this trip was epically humbling for me. On April 27, my family's town got leveled by a tornado. In all of 10 seconds, everything in this tornado's path was turned to rubble, people died and the town was devastated and had to rely on outside help to get back on their feet. I have seen the pictures and video of the disaster however, they do the place no justice. When I was there a lot of the rubble was removed and the bodies were cleaned up. Seeing what is left with my own eyes, the rubble the school has become, the buildings and rubble awaiting removal, the businesses that are gone, the flags stuck in the ground where dead bodies were found and the people that are still sifting through the rubble, separating the mess, removing it and trying to put their town and their lives back together. A feeling of appreciation for what I have came over me. These people have to be really strong to get through this. I wonder how many need psychological help dealing with this.

I feel a little spoiled right now. It's human nature to want things we don't have however, when you realize that life is pretty good with what you have, little things like having a place to sleep, food to eat, a car and your family are things that keep a smile on your face. I'm a strong believer in donating and volunteering to help others but I'm not consistant with it. I've decided to do more.

I had a new scene come out and I've been told it's my best yet. I felt good after shooting this one, I know I had improved my performance. I'll love to hear what my fans have to say. Check it out, go to www.beccablossoms.com and check it out!!!

I'm a Busy Bee :)

This last week has been pretty busy for and I loved every minute of it.  Last Saturday, I did my third skit with Gilbert Gottfried for PsychobabbleTV, this was our best one yet.  I can't wait until it's out, Gilbert is so cool :)  I really need to work on keeping my giggling under control when I'm performing with him but it's so hard, he's just so funny!!!

I've spend the past 5 days in Vegas, I've never been however, I guarantee I'll be back in the future.  This town is just nuts!!!  I think we went into almost every casino.  The food was great, I really need to hit the gym when I'm home :)  We saw the comedian Vinnie Favorito, this guy is super funny, I almost peed my pants.  I was thankful that I was in the back of the audience when he was asking our names and what we did for a living.  We were with an older crowd and I don't know exactly how they would have reacted to me saying my name is Becca Blossoms and I'm a porn star.  Hee hee!!  Our good friends got married while we were out there and the ceremony was beautiful.  I was so honored to be a part of it.  It made me and Chong consider getting married while we were out there...we considered it, we didn't do it.  Walking through the Sahara was a little sad.  Today was the last day it is open, it closed forever at 2:00 today.  The place was so quiet and empty, most of the machines were off, the card tables were covered for the last time and there were chains on the doors.  I wonder what they are going to put up there next.  We attempted to go to the Pawn Stars shop, I was super excited about this.  Unfortunately, the line was really long and we didn't make it in.  One of my favorite places was Vince Neil Ink.  Motley Crue has been my favorite band since the beginning of their career.  Of course I bought a couple shot glasses for my collection and checked out the stuff to see there.  It was awesome, lots of Motley Crue and Vince Neil stuff.  Too bad Vince wasn't there, I would have spent a little time with him in the back room!!!

The Hoover Damn and Grand Canyon were simply breath taking.  The Hoover Damn was just amazing.  The fact that human can build something like this in that location is incredible.  The Grand Canyon was beautiful.  The drive out there was relaxing and amazing.  I got to see the most beautiful scenery I've ever seen in a desert.  I was also humbled by some of the desert towns we drove through.  Talking about counting your blessings, man I was getting to some pretty high numbers.  I'm blessed to have had the opportunity to see such beauty and get a humbling reminder of how fortunate I am.

My favorite part of this trip was my friend Dawn from college.  She drove in from Utah to hang out with me, I haven't seen her in 9 years.  I really love this girl with all my heart.  I sent Chong out with the boys and Dawn and I had a great time at Toby Kieth's Bar and Grill, dancing and making googly eyes at the lead singer of the band.  This girl is certainly a blessing in my life, I'm not waiting another 9 years to see her, that's too damn long!!

Now I'm sitting at the Las Vegas airport waiting to board the plane to Milwaukee.  I'm happy to get back home, I have phone calls and e mails to return for possible work in the future and a little pet project I'm working on.  I want to bring a SWOP (Sex Workers Outreach Project) chapter to Milwaukee.  I'm starting from the ground up and I really hope I can get this going.  There are a lot of sex workers in the Milwaukee area that could really benefit from this.  I'll keep everyone posted on how I'm progressing, I'm looking forward to getting this going.

What a week!!

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Hey everyone!!

I'm in Milwaukee today and it got darn cold. It was beautiful the past two days. That's Midwest weather for ya!! It's ok, though. I'll get my workout in the gym today :) I have a little shopping to do, I need to get some sexy stuff for my upcoming shoots at the end of the the month. I'm feeling great about finally shooting again. I've been working out a lot, eating well and I feel that I'm looking better than in my past scenes. Of course, my fans will be the true judges of that.

While I'm at home, I'm working on building my new paysite. It's taking a little longer than I wanted but that doesn't bother me. I prefer to take my time and do things right. I want high quality work and all the behind the scenes things in order.

I've been out and about having fun the past few weeks. My most recent fun was at the Shedd Aquarium in Chicago with my daughter. We had a great time, I haven't been there in years. It was a ton of fun and great mommy/daughter time. To top it all off, we had some great Chicago pizza, you can never go wrong with true Chicago pizza. Needless to say, I didn't pay attention to how much I was eating and what I does to my ass :) I'm hoping to get out to the Museum of Science and Industry to see the Body Worlds exhibit. I saw the one in Milwaukee a few years ago, this one is different. I reaaalllllyyyyy want to check it out :)

Today is going to be a fun day in the great city of Chicago!!! My daughter and I are going to spend the day down there. Even though I grew up near Chicago and have had the city at my disposal most of my life, I never get bored of it. Theres so much to do, so much culture and arts and entertainment. I love going down there. Next week, I will be in Des Moines for 2 days. I never thought to visit there however, it has come to my attention that I have quite the fan base there. I'm hoping to meet some of them :) At the end of the month, I'm finally shooting in LA!!! I have 2 shoot set up for Naughty America so far...others are in the works ad I will certainly blog about them when they are set in stone. I'm super excited about getting back to shooting :)

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I just had a great time in St. Louis, I can't wait to get home in the morning :) I really hope the midwest weather doesn't hold my plane up. I had a great time here, met some awesome fans and ate some yummy food.

My next trip is Chicago then LA!!!! It's been months since I've bee in LA, I can't wait to get out there and see everyone :) I'll be going to New York for the first time. The only other time I've been to New York was to get on a plane. This time I'm going to spend some time there, meet some fans, have some fun :)

I'm really enjoying all this traveling I've been doing, espically when I get to met my fans. Who knows, YOU could be next!!!!

Bears Lost :( Life will go on :)

Wow, it's been a busy few day! I spend Thursday and Friday in Chicago, I was fortunate enough to meet some great fans :) Today, my little girl and I stayed home and had a girl day. I can't believe how big she is getting and what a beautiful, wonderful, intelligent person she is becoming. Today was good but is tainted with a little sadness, the Bears lost :)

Looking forward to the future, I'm going to spend a few days in Oak Brook, IL. This is my first time touring there, I can't wait to meet my fans there. I have a lot of traveling to do this year and I'm really excited to see new places and meet new people.

Yesterday morning, before leaving Chicago, I filmed some more Masterbation Monday scenes for my website. I can't wait for you to see it, I use toys that I have never used before. I can't wait until they are up, I would love to hear your feed back and suggestions :)

Have a very blessed evening!!! *Muah*

I've been feeling a little blah lately, I think my trip to Chicago tomorrow will do me some good. It's always refreshing to get to the Windy City every now and then and spend some time with my fans :) I won't be escaping the cold weather (yet) however, I will have a change of environment and that is just what I need right now. I'm only there for 2.5 days so I need to squeeze all the fun I can have in such a short period of time :)

I'm not having much with the feature dancing thing, it's harder to get into than I thought. I found a local place that might be able to help me out with shows. I'm working on getting more credits behind me and finding a local club to be a club girl in. I'm not going to give up!!! I'm one hot MILF and I have a lot of potential. Whatever I end up doing, I'm going to have fun doing it!!

What are you favorite clubs and your favorite things you like to see the girls in the clubs do? Don't be shy, e mail me!!! becca@beccablossoms.com. I want to be sure to cater to my fans when I'm in a club and your suggestions would be perfect!!

I hope everyone had a great holiday season!! As much as I loved being with my friends and family, I'm so happy it's over. Now it's time to get on with real life. I'm trying very hard to get myself ready to feature dance by the end of this spring. I'm running into some brick walls. They are slowing down my progress but will not stop me :)

Of course I will continue to shoot in fact, I want to get out to LA and shoot more this year than I have in the past. There are some other companies that are not in LA, I'm hoping they will have also :)

One thing I learned through my experiences so far is that I'm really beginning to love traveling. I'm going to be visiting lots of cities this year and meeting my fans. I will post on my calendar when I'm going to be in a city and where. If you have a suggestion, be generous with them!! becca@beccablossoms.com.

On a personal note, I've been working by butt off, improving my body for myself and my fans. I'm trying to stay as healthy as I can and I'm feeling great. I've noticed that the people around me are catching also, a healthy lifestyle is contagious:) My energy level is up so watch out!!! I'm going to have that same energy in my scenes!!!!

I just have to say...THE BEARS WON LAST NIGHT!!!!!! There are some very excited people in my house right now. We're all going to be in pins and needles until next Sunday when they play the Packers. What a stressful week this is going to be!! I feel like it's the week before leaving for a Disney vacation. Go Bears!! Woo Hoo!!!

To everyone driving in the crazy Midwestern weather, please drive safely and not like you haven't seen snow before :) Have some fun with it, make a snow man or an angel or build a snow for and let your kids play in it. A snow for will keep kids occupied for hours!!!!

Kisses,
Becca Blossoms